I’ve switched my email etc. to https://infomaniak.com/
I’m planning on move all my media out of google photos but I really like the ability to search by a persons face, or to search “Dog” and then it’ll show me all my pictures with dogs in them.
I have 100k photos, so having search functionality like this is curtail.
I’ve been using ente, I really like it! Magic search works quite well. I pay for the hosted version, but it’s open source and self-hostable.
No partner share though. You can share albums but not everything to another person. The E2E encryption seems to make this challenging. We just share credentials.
I also self host Photoprism and Immich. I don’t know why but Immich feels the slowest of the three despite everyone else saying how fast it is. I have 80k photos/videos and I’ve only recently set it up so I think it might still be processing thumbnails or something.