• 52fighters@lemmy.sdf.org
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      8 days ago

      I’d consider using them if I didn’t need to use a phone number to register. My friends and family stick with Briar as a result.

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        Hey man, if you can convince anyone to use Briar, do that. I have better luck getting people to use Signal because it’s way more popular and easier to sign up. And if I want to know if someone uses it, I can find out instantly.

        • HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com
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          After years of trying, I finally got my wife to use signal!

          I text with her the most so it’s a big win for me (and her even if she doesn’t realize it.)

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              I’ve tried to get everyone I know on Signal, so far my mom is the only one who uses it and that’s only when she accidentally taps the wrong icon when she intended to send me an SMS.

              And then there’s my stepsister who complains about not being able to have a unified chat because she and family are apple while most of the rest of us are android. Signal Diane, it’s a cross app platform that solves your problem…but no it’s not apple so it won’t work…🤬

              • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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                How about this:

                1. Tell everyone signal is the best way to contact you because it works on all your devices (phone, laptop, desktop)
                2. When someone messages you on signal, be really responsive
                3. When someone messages you on SMS, be really slow, and occasionally mention how sorry you are about missing it
          • Ulrich@feddit.org
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            8 days ago

            Yes and no, Signal is more convenient but convenience doesn’t play into a scenario where I have no way to message someone on a given platform. And most people aren’t interested in a conversation about which messengers they’re using.

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      8 days ago

      Matrix is also an option and heavily audited+ federated. And unlike Signal not based in the US.

      And the best? You can easily selfhost a bridge to signal and WhatsApp.

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        8 days ago

        How well do the signal and whatsapp bridges work? Have you used them yourself? I tried setting up a discord bridge years ago and it was terrible. Is it better now?