Surban mom.

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Cake day: July 10th, 2023

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  • Working 40 hours can be tough. I think it is about a finding a setup that can work for you. Here’s how I set it up to work for me (I work more than 40, so some of this is just so I don’t die). Maybe there’s something in there you can try out.

    • I work with family so I can double up work/family time
    • I work from home so I don’t have to commute and I can pause to see my kids off to/come home from school
    • My husband does not work so I see him throughout the day and he takes care of household chores
    • I let my kids play in my office when I’m working (even on conference calls)
    • I like my job and coworkers
    • I take naps on the weekend
    • I have given up on hobbies outside of what my kids like
    • I get up at 4am and start work most days by 5am to ensure I have evenings with my family




  • I’m a parent and do not agree with this approach. Everyone should behave in public - and kids should practice so they can learn. At home, my kids get to behave like animals and we do things where they can behave like kids, like trampoline park, zoo, the arcade, etc. When we are out at places where the kids should behave, we bring them iPads and headphones so they are able to make it through the activity. But it is just rude to let your kid intrude and ruin a dinner, museum, movie, etc for others.